How To Qualify Men 5 Things To Think About Before You Date Him

I would have to say if there was one thing that a woman could get good at that would probably undo most of the problems that she is used to when it comes to dating - it would be for you to learn how to qualify the men that you date. Think about it like this. You are valuable. Your time is valuable. Your love is valuable. So, why would you want to waste any of that on a guy who is not worth it?

Some women DO have good qualification processes that they use when they date, even if they do it mostly on the subconscious level. However, you can bring it up to the conscious level if you find that you have a tendency to attract the wrong guys into your life.

HERE ARE 5 QUESTIONS THAT YOU NEED TO ASK BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO DATE A GUY IF YOU WANT TO QUALIFY HIM:

1) DOES HE SHOW ANY SIGNS OF HIS OWN PERSONAL GROWTH?

It's hard to grow with someone if they are not used to forcing themselves to grow. I don't mean that he has to be a Tony Robbins fan or anything like that, but you should see that he is trying to grow in some areas of his life. If he has been at the same entry level job, living at home and pretty much doing the same things for years, chances are he is not going to be easy to grow with in a relationship.

2) DOES HE SEEM TO BE ABLE TO HOLD DOWN A CONVERSATION THAT YOU ARE ACTUALLY INTERESTED IN?

You might be wowed by the way that he looks. And he may have a really cool aura about him. If you are bored when he is talking though that may be an indication that he is not really going to be worth your time. Just think about how bad it is going to be if you are having dinner together and you are thinking that you can't really stand what it is that he is talking about.

3) ARE YOU ON SIMILAR EDUCATION LEVELS?

This is one of those things that people don't like to think matters, but quite often it does. It matters because it will dictate how conversations go. And it will matter because you may find that 2 years from now, you don't want the same things in life.

4) DOES HE MAKE YOU FEEL PLAYFUL IN A ROMANTIC SENSE?

Passion and romance are keys to a lasting and happy relationship. Without passion and romance, you would end up bored with one another really fast. This is something that you don't want to neglect, not if you want things to be fun and frisky for a long time.

5) DOES HE HAVE AT LEAST SOME TRACK RECORD OF BEING ABLE TO HAVE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS?

His past relationships can say a lot about him. If you find that he has never been able to have anything close to a long term relationship, that may be a clue that you need to pay attention to. Not only that, if you find that he seems to describe every ex girlfriend as being a psycho or something like that - it may mean that HE is the one that really had problems.

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