The beta male is alsodependent from the Alpha male for survival.In the animal world, the Alpha male's traits are especially connected with physicalstrength and ability.In the human race such physical traits - in time of peace - are relativelyunimportant.Rather the Alpha qualities of the human male are connected with two principalcharacteristics:- Impudence- LeadershipAlso intellectual, emotional qualities and outlook count, but not as much as theabove mentioned.Impudence is at a higher level than Leadership and also at a higher level thanintelligence.
Don't be surprised at this: an impudent male is able to create a companywith 1000 workers and still be somehow less capable and less intelligent when comparedto some other males.So this is a much more important Alpha quality because by his impudence, theAlpha male puts himself in the position of leader and later due to his leadership andintelligence qualities he succeeds in his task. Only the qualities of Leadership andintelligence are not enough for taking command of the group.One has to be impudent to do that.For this reason a male who is skilled in doing street and bar pickups often succeedsin his purpose: he shows impudence.The impudence is the Alpha quality for excellence and an irresistible turn on for thewoman.The Alpha attitude is the attitude you need to assume to be attractive to women tothe maximum level.
The attitude is this:“In words, actions and omissions i speak, move and behave in such a way that inever ask for forgiveness about my personality and my sexual desire as a male. i am animpudent individual.”Read this phrase about the Alpha attitude.
Put this too on the mirror you look inwhen you shave yourself in the morning: only by observing this rule - even if you knownothing about the seduction techniques contained in this book - your possibilities in thefield of seduction will be much higher.There is an important corollary to the Alpha attitude and it is this:“In every woman there is at an instinctual level, a deep and incoercible desire togive herself sexually to the male who shows the alpha attitude.
”Why? It’s simple. Remember? The woman is the selector of the best genes. Whenyou assume the Alpha attitude, you are acting on deeper instincts of the female psyche.On a deeper level she will feel like this: ”He is so cocky, he is so strong, he neverasks for forgiveness, he is so self-confident, surely has the best genes, surely all the otherwomen want him, I want him for me! I want to make him mine!”Note, the Alpha attitude is not connected with violence.
Even in the case of war, ifpossible, the most self-confident males use violence only as a last resort.An Alpha male is self-confident. A violent male is unsure of himself. Using violencetoo easily and especially with women, you only show your impotence.Women are masters in smelling out a lack of self-confidence.On the other hand, this is the principal reason women fall so easily in love withbastards, killers, Mafiosi and gentlemen thieves. At an instinctual level the impudentbehavior of an Alpha man acts on them in an irresistible way.There are men who have natural Alpha qualities.
They are men who are strong,self-confident and don't ask for forgiveness about their existence in any case. They donot have problems. But don't get depressed. You can also become an Alpha!You can train yourself to become an Alpha. The Alpha quality is an attitude and itcan be learned. It is the same process you went through when you were in the Army andyou were taught all those nasty activities and attitudes you never believed you could door have.Then one fine day you noticed that you could walk looking straight ahead and withan extremely impudent attitude. You became an Alpha, at least as far as the Army wasconcerned!Practically speaking what you did was to learn a new attitude.
You did not havechoices.Your sergeant would have your ass if you hadn’t done it! At the beginning you wereforced to repeat movements, to reprehend yourself, you were scared. One day you justput the uniform on and you felt like you owned the world.You can learn the Alpha attitude in the same way. To succeed you need toconcentrate on 3 essential areas:
1. Language.
2. Non-verbal expression. (The emotions you communicate to other people withyour facial expressions, look, posture and so on.)
3. Leadership. (There are only two alternatives: you direct the others or you aredirected.There is no middle way. Don’t believe the democratic bullshit of the media. In anygroup there is always a Leader. If it is not you, it is someone else.
Let's start withlanguage and analyze these two passages:
a. He: ”I hope I didn’t disturb you. What are you doing tomorrow? Are you busy? Itwould be nice to have coffee together.”
b. He: “Hi. Tomorrow I have a break at the Company at 4 pm and after that I'mgoing to the gym.
Come and have a coffee with me so you can tell me about that trip ofyours to Africa.”You see the differences? Well there are differences and they are very big.In the first passage you are in the subservient mental frame (the beta quality parexcellence), you “ask permission”, in effect you talk to the woman as a beta male. Whenyou do that you can be deadly sure that the more beautiful and the more feminine she is, the more she will treat you like garbage.
You present yourself as beta and she treats you as a beta.In the second example you are structuring an opportunity for her!You assume the position of a leader, put her in the position of entertaining you andcoming to tell you about her trip, you telegraph the message that you are busy all thetime with business meetings and sport commitments, in a word you tell her: ”I am theAlpha male” and she will treat you as Alpha male.Things, however, are not quite that simple.
Women test continuously and in a very active way an Alpha male's qualities. Anentire chapter of this book is dedicated to woman's tests and the correct way to react tothem. Here is enough to say that, after you have presented yourself to the woman withthe Alpha attitude, she will start to conduct tests on you to see if you are Alpha or betaand her tests never end.In my opinion a sexually active woman, especially if she has a very strong sexualinstinct, practically never stops testing her male's Alpha qualities. Women do it in anunconscious and automatic way.
It is practically a law of Nature and you need to get usedto it.When you have learned the appropriate answers to the tests and learned to react tothem in the appropriate way, this will seem to you as simple as eating and drinking.My experience is that the more beautiful and feminine a woman is the morenumerous and difficult to overcome her tests will be. For this reason you need to keepyour eyes - and especially your ears - open.An Alpha male's traits are:
- Impudence: He has the guts to ask for privileges for his group and for himself.He fearlessly protects the rights of his group and himself.
- He never asks for forgiveness for his sexual desire as a male. This is veryimportant. Only by keeping this attitude with women will your success as a seducer goup and go up fast.
- He never asks for forgiveness for his own existence: he walks through the worldproud of himself.
- He assumes in the social group and in relation to the woman the position of aleader. The leader of a group or in a situation is not the one who is violent to others orthe one who behaves like a jerk.He is the one who has charisma. He is the leader of his group and the one whostructures opportunities for himself and for others.
- He never assumes the subservient mental frame when relating with other peopleor with a woman. The subservient mental frame is a very important subject and therewill be a chapter dedicated to it in this book.Regarding non-verbal communication, the qualities of an Alpha male are notcorrelated in anyway with violence or the behavior of a jerk. The Alpha male is generallyrelaxed and in his non-verbal communication there are no signs of violence.The Alpha male uses violence only in extreme cases and only if there are no otheralternatives. One of the most important qualities of the Alpha male is the ability all thetime to find with his attitude solutions to problems which provide an alternative toviolence.In the sad case that an Alpha male is in the need of using violence, he tries toeliminate his enemy by using his maximum strength without showing any joy for theresults he gets. He will also try to avoid humiliating his enemy.For this reason the non-verbal attitude of the Alpha male is:
- Relaxed.
- Non-aggressive.
- Self-confident.
- Open.
- Communicative.
One of the principal traits in the Alpha male is his ability to open himself up andeasily establish contact with other individuals - both men and women - He is good instructuring opportunities, both for himself and for others.Alpha males direct people in a creative way.In NLP there is an important concept: modeling. When you read my list of thequalities of Alpha males, you probably found qualities you have in yourself and qualitiesyou don't have.Modeling in NLP means that you can learn to assume determinate traits in yourpersonality and skills, if you start to “model” them.
Read the Alpha male qualities andstart to train yourself - with self-confidence and persistence - to assume them.Try to understand which are the Alpha males in your group and model them. Youcan begin by making “small changes” in your behavior in the right direction.In that way you will get a change process started by observing your frames andattitudes and by changing them: the more you succeed in doing this, the more you willnotice very important improvements in your social relationships and in your seductionskills.
Even only small changes in the direction of the frame: “I don't ask for forgivenessfor my sexual desire” will bring you more good looking women than you could evenimagine.
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